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苍阳
2020-07-13
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今天来聊聊同性恋,以下观点很主观,很片面,但或许会让你了解我们这个群体一些为人诟病的行为的产生原因,会分几章来写。如果你问我为什么不尝试喜欢异性,我会回答你“请你尝试一下喜欢同性”。这个群体在中国从来都不是主流,即使是好男风的时期,也从未允许同性婚姻,最多只是玩玩,这是根深蒂固的传统思想。设想一下,当发现自己是同性恋之后,你似乎只有两个选择,1.做自己,活在阳光下;2.隐藏自己,选择形婚或骗婚。你会怎么选呢?1.做自己,活在阳光下:你准备好接受主流价值观的炙烤了吗?你准备好向父母、朋友出柜(告知自己的性取向)了吗?这一切的后果你能承担吗?a.如果不能承担,那么似乎只能选择2.隐藏自己,并且和一开始就选择隐藏的人相比,你的烂摊子会多一些,你和家人、朋友的关系会转入不可逆的状态,然而福祸相依,最终结果倒不一定不好。b.如果你选择承担后果,勇敢出柜,并且幸运的成功了之后。如果选择不生孩子,少了这一个四脚吞金兽,你的生活水平会提高非常多,但你也不会学到为人父所需要承担的责任。如果选择生孩子,你做好自己的孩子被恐同者(恐惧同性恋的人)以及恐同者的孩子歧视的心理准备了吗?未完待续…下一章:2.隐藏自己,选择形婚或骗婚
苍阳
2020-07-13
$蓝城兄弟(BLCT)$
同志亦凡人(二) 今天来聊聊同性恋,以下观点很主观,很片面,但或许会让你了解我们这个群体一些为人诟病的行为的产生原因,会分几章来写。 这个群体在中国从来都不是主流,即使是好男风的时期,也从未允许同性婚姻,最多只是玩玩,这是根深蒂固的传统思想。 设想一下,当发现自己是同性恋之后,你似乎只有两个选择,1.做自己,活在阳光下;2.隐藏自己,选择形婚或骗婚。你会怎么选呢? 1.做自己,活在阳光下(
今天早上发的文章
中说过,链接如下) 由于我没有接触过女同性恋,所以只谈男同性恋。 2.隐藏自己,选择形婚或骗婚: a.骗婚(隐瞒自己性取向找个姑娘结婚),这是同性恋所不齿的行为,部分懦弱的同性恋,嚷嚷着孝道,为了给父母一个交代,去欺骗一个无辜的女子,毁了人家半辈子,于心何忍?但同时也要看到,正是因为社会的巨大压力,加上部分父母的威严过大(或者身体不好怕气出毛病),才导致这种行为一直存在。当然,有些人喳就算这些压力没有了也可能会做出这样的事,因为他或许想低成本要一个孩子。然而人喳是不分性取向的,异性恋也有人喳。 b.形婚(坦白自己的性取向,找一个同性恋姑娘形式上结婚,给双方长辈一个交代)。由于各自家庭压力不同,对形婚的看法也不同。有些压力大的会选择形婚,但形婚也有相应的风险。由于形婚的本质是向长辈隐瞒性取向,给家里一个交代。所以有些不怀好意的姑娘怀孕后,以肚子里的孩子来要挟男方给他钱财,不给就去做人流,或者把男方性取向的事告知他的父母亲戚,这时会陷入更尴尬的窘境。如果幸运的形婚成功,那么孩子他妈出现在男方生活中的频率也不会低,隐瞒着过
苍阳
2020-07-09
$哔哩哔哩(BILI)$
韭菜小白入金当天令人窒息的操作2333
苍阳
2020-07-21
$蓝城兄弟(BLCT)$
等[害羞] 三年
苍阳
2020-07-16
$哔哩哔哩(BILI)$
B站卡片广告即将到来,up收入渠道增加。下午41加仓,然而本金不多,39时没钱加仓了[捂脸]
苍阳
2020-07-11
[吃瓜] 每天盼着你俩跌…看着浮盈一天天减少感慨跌的速度不够快。[开心] 预警已经设置好了,等着加仓。[害羞] 两个都是快十年的老用户了,知道你们未来总会涨的,无非就是成本高低罢了。
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苍阳
2020-11-25
$蓝城兄弟(BLCT)$
[汗颜] 在国内出台相关政策之前,我觉得这货涨不起来,虽然已经是一哥了。再涨一波清仓。
苍阳
2020-07-22
$蓝城兄弟(BLCT)$
恭喜破发,[捂脸] 我可以趴地上装死了
苍阳
2020-07-09
$蓝城兄弟(BLCT)$
我在这儿放个鸡笼。凭实力拉高成本,我真牛逼哈哈哈(图就不放了,心痛
苍阳
2020-07-08
555我的彩虹小马,新账户没有发图权限错过了。看好小蓝,希望能中签,冲鸭₍•ʚ•₎•ʚ•₎•ʚ•₎(不中明天我直接买就是了…
苍阳
2020-07-22
$哔哩哔哩(BILI)$
起起落落[吃瓜]
苍阳
2020-07-17
$哔哩哔哩(BILI)$
[害羞] 等你起飞
苍阳
2020-07-14
$蓝城兄弟(BLCT)$
等一个破发[吃瓜]
苍阳
2020-07-11
$蓝城兄弟(BLCT)$
准备到21再加仓,作为一个小白,这个数字是我拍脑袋决定的哈哈哈。申购5股+24.多的15股已经把我的成本拉高不少了,20股的持仓对我而言也够了,留点本金抄底
$哔哩哔哩(BILI)$
。等不到也没事,就算最后收益不如余额宝,我也学到了经验。
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","text":"$蓝城兄弟(BLCT)$等一个破发[吃瓜]","images":[],"top":1,"highlighted":1,"essential":1,"paper":1,"likeSize":0,"commentSize":0,"repostSize":0,"link":"https://laohu8.com/post/941079908","isVote":1,"tweetType":1,"viewCount":1311,"authorTweetTopStatus":1,"verified":2,"comments":[],"imageCount":0,"langContent":"CN","totalScore":0},{"id":943596084,"gmtCreate":1594649043648,"gmtModify":1704206161879,"author":{"id":"3557147312156401","authorId":"3557147312156401","name":"苍阳","avatar":"https://static.tigerbbs.com/fb3a2853ec8fb57640fde65efe9e3f50","crmLevel":1,"crmLevelSwitch":0,"followedFlag":false},"themes":[],"htmlText":"<a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https://laohu8.com/S/BLCT\">$蓝城兄弟(BLCT)$</a> 同志亦凡人(二) 今天来聊聊同性恋,以下观点很主观,很片面,但或许会让你了解我们这个群体一些为人诟病的行为的产生原因,会分几章来写。 这个群体在中国从来都不是主流,即使是好男风的时期,也从未允许同性婚姻,最多只是玩玩,这是根深蒂固的传统思想。 设想一下,当发现自己是同性恋之后,你似乎只有两个选择,1.做自己,活在阳光下;2.隐藏自己,选择形婚或骗婚。你会怎么选呢? 1.做自己,活在阳光下(<a href=\"https://laohu8.com/TW/943633761\" target=\"_blank\">今天早上发的文章</a>中说过,链接如下) 由于我没有接触过女同性恋,所以只谈男同性恋。 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